I just finished watching the 60 minute interview of Andre Agassi and I thought about it and I can’t help myself - I have to speak out and share what is on my heart. If you’re not a tennis fan then please excuse this moment and this particular blog post. Just like art often imitates life, I do believe we are all just 6 degrees apart from one another. So, maybe, just maybe, someone out there knows Andre Agassi or knows someone who knows him and can get this letter to him. And with that let’s begin.
Dear Mr. Agassi,
You don’t know me but maybe one day we will have the opportunity to meet. My name is Samuel Barr and I’m an avid Tennis player who loves the game of Tennis. If “things” were different I would have become a professional because I love the game that much. And, I’ve watched you and admired your game ever since you burst on the scene at 16 years old. Over the years I’ve tried to emulate your game, especially your forehand. But, having modeled my forehand after Jimmy Arais I haven’t had much success. But, I did adopt your 360 degree pivot when transitioning from my backhand on an out stretched shot. However, today I don’t want to talk to you about tennis. I want to talk with you about life.
From what I’m hearing and seeing in the press you have been judged by your peers. With all of the “stuff” that is coming at you, especially from the world of Tennis, I wanted you to know that it’s alright. The people who are trying to condemn you are hypocrites. None of us are perfect, and who do they think they are elevating themselves to some pseudo-plateau of morality when “truth” be told they to have areas in their lives that are far from perfect. We all do, that’s what makes us human.
Know in your heart that there is no condemnation in Christ. And, you have nothing to be ashamed of or to feel condemned about. In fact, because you had the courage to be honest with a part of your life that most people want to keep secret, you have unconsciously helped countless others free themselves or seek help knowing that if you could break free, they could to. How can anyone condemn someone for helping others break free from addiction. The fact that they try to condemn you tells you exactly who they are and what they’re about. And although sometimes it hurts, it’s always better to know who is really with you, who is not, and where you really stand with people.
I don’t know your religious beliefs and I’m not trying to put mine on you. But, know that God is not through with you and this isn’t the end but actually is just the beginning. If only one person gets free from addiction then all of the persecution and negativity would have been worth it. So, be encouraged and know that there are people out there who not only respect you as a great Tennis player, but now respect you as a man - a real man. And in the end isn’t that what really matters.
Be encouraged, and if you ever come to Chicago you’ve got a big hug and a free lunch waiting for you. Be blessed and keep doing what you’re doing.
A friend and fellow Tennis player,
Samuel Barr
Deuteronomy 1:30 (New International Version)
